There’s a gravel pit a little ways down from my house. Trucks are always pulling out of there in front of people. Usually, I get stopped. Not yesterday. I ran right into the back of him with tires screeching. I remember first thinking, “They’re pulling out in front of me again!!!” Then, “Am I stopping?” At that point, I hit the brakes again thinking, “Pump the breaks…” which I don’t even know if they do any more, but I remember that from drivers ed a million years ago. Then I remember thinking, “I’m not going to get stopped in time!!”
I think I remember the feeling of the impact, but the next thing I definitely remember is looking at my feet and thinkin, “Why am I looking down like this? My head hurts. I should lean back.” I leaned back and saw the driver of the big truck almost at my window. I rolled it down and he asked if I had a cell phone because his didn’t get signal through there. I leaned down to look for it in the passenger side floorboard and blood just started dripping everywhere. He said, “Don’t worry about it! I’ll go grab mine!” and took off. I bent down to look for mine again and accidently hit the horn. He came running back over. Well, at this point, I wasn’t sure how bad my cut was or even where it was, but apparently he thought it was bad because he thought I honked because I needed help. I apologized and got out of the truck to go look for the cell phone.
I found the phone…in the back seat floorboard. I called 9-1-1. They sent someone out and put me through to the ambulance service - who couldn’t understand my location despite me telling them three times I was staring at the city limits sign on the highway. /boggle They asked me my phone number and I couldn’t think of it. Once they finally hung up with me, I called TBF to have him call into work for me. He didn’t answer so I called Vanessa and told him to go get him. He called me back and was on his way. Actually, that never crossed my mind. All I was thinking was that I needed to call into work, but I only had the pharmacy number and they wouldn’t answer for another hour. =/
A volunteer fireman and EMT happened to stop about the time I called 9-1-1. He grabbed his EMT bag, put gloves on, grabbed bandages, and began soaking up the blood from my head. He was trying to make small talk and asking me questions to see how alert I was. He asked me who the president was….and I couldn’t answer. I kept thinking, “Come on! You know this. His father had the same name and was president too!!! Why can’t you think of it?!?!?! Oh this is bad. It’s a sign of concussion. I don’t want one of those. Think of the freaking name!!” After a few minutes, I came up with it out of the blue! By then though, he wanted another answer.
“How old are you?”
I started thinking hard, “ I’m in my 30’s. Thirty what? Why can’t you remember this?!?!” I said, “I was born in 1970!” I kept thinking, “It’s not the 80’s or 90’s. What comes after that? It’s past the year 2000. What one is it? Whatever year it is, that’s how old I am. Thirty that. What is it?!?!” But it never came to me.
A few more people stopped. One of them being a volunteer fireman that I knew. I told him hi and that’s when the ambulance showed up. They were hurrying to get me on the stretcher and get a brace on me. I saw TBF and told him, “That’s my boyfriend. Give him my keys and stuff if you would.” Before the ambulance took me away, TBF climbed inside and told me he’d wait for the tow truck and then be on his way to the hospital. The EMT’s gave him directions and off we went.
The guy that road in back with me was asking me questions and I told him I get car sick. He was like, “Oh great. Just what we need…lol”
At the hospital, they took lovely head shots and a few neck/back ones only to determine that I’d only cut open my head and had a concussion. They stuck me back into the room and left me there. TBF made it back there soon after I got back. He’s about all I really remember. Sitting and talking to him and on occassion, I’d see him glance at the sheet behind me and at the top of my head. I remember thinking, “Wow, he’s being so polite not to stare more. I know he wants to…lol”
We were in there a few hours when finally, the doctor came in to staple my head up. She asked him, “You want to see this?” Of course he did. I remember her saying something about the membrane that covers the skull…and if it had been a little deeper, but I don’t know exactly what she was saying. I do know that TBF said he could have stuck his entire finger inside of the cut. They put betadine on it, threw on 5 staples, and then slapped a bandage over my hair. They said they no longer shave the area because the hair actually helps protect the cut. Then I was out the door headed to admissions.
Once there, they asked about my insurance, but I didn’t have any of that information with me. It was still in my truck. My sister and brother-in-law were waiting with the kids. I didn’t know they knew. They stepped in to take me home - which was a little upsetting because I wanted to have a peaceful ride home with TBF, but I knew he had to get to work. Later that night, he said that it was a bit upsetting for him because he felt as if they positioned theirselves in between us…which was pretty much what I had thought. It’s kind of funny though because they were talking about how good he was to have done all that he did for me.
I didn’t get my pain meds filled because I’m not a good druggie and I have a high pain tolerence. I knew Tylenol and Advil would work just fine for me…and they have so far. I have to go back in about 10 days to have the staples out. I have a concussion of course. My truck is broken, I have a huge hospital bill coming, and somewhere in all that mess, the cops showed up at the hospital to write me a ticket for failure to control vehicle after telling me I wasn’t speeding. The good news, I got a day off work….lol
Last night, TBF rinsed the blood out of my hair. I had to wait 8 hours before I could get it wet…and I can’t use shampoo on it until Sunday….so my hair is still nappy…lol I have to put antibiotic ointment on it and keep the bandage over it. Of course the bandage looks at if it’s just sitting on my hair…and it is, but it’s there to keep things from falling into the stapled area. Off and on yesterday, blood would just start dripping down my neck…but so far today, we seem to be good….other than the achy body I have. The only bruises are one on my leg from the steering wheele and the other on my neck from the seat belt. I have a few bumps on my head. The air bag didn’t deploy - which is really a good thing because I’m only 4′11″ and they can do some major damage if you’re not taller and farther away from them.
My truck looks really ugly. The headlights aren’t broken (I really think I ALMOST got stopped), but it crunched in the middle like it’s supposed to and my radiator was spewing water. I don’t know what it’s going to take to fix it…if it can be fixed. All I know is that I feel majorly wronged. There are no less than 4 sets of skid marks in the same spot as mine from other people having to stop suddenly as those trucks pulled out in front of them. I wasn’t speeding. I did everything I could to stop, but I still got the ticket…and the crunched vehicle…and the hospital bill…and $150 fee for the tow truck which TBF paid. =/
I have no idea how I’m getting to work on Monday, but I’m still in one piece. I’m thankful for that. =)
Comment by Lews — October 1, 2008 @ 10:39 am
What carrier do you use? If it is Verizon I have a couple of perfectly good phones that are not being used.
Comment by Naye — October 1, 2008 @ 5:42 pm
AT&T, but my phone seems to be working again….for now. =) Thanks though!